AIO for expecting my bf to help instead of criticize

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AIO: Realizing all those times I just “let it happen” were not ok…

A subreddit to help figure out if you overreacted to something or if you were justified

AIO: My bf left me at the airport by myself after he made us late for the flight but miraculously made it.

A subreddit to help figure out if you overreacted to something or if you were justified