Premature Ejaculation

Hopefully this is the right thread for this, and if not, please tell me which one would be better for this question.

Just want to know what the spiritual reason behind having premature ejaculation might be? I have had this issue since my first sexual experience, and at this point, I am considering it to be lifelong; I am currently 38. Out of curiosity, I want to read some different perspectives and ideas as to why your higher self would choose this as something to experience, especially if it’ll most likely last a lifetime? I feel as it might be a curse, so is it possible it might have something to do with karma? I am grateful that it’s not an extreme, “ one pump chump,” scenario, but it’s still bad enough to feel like a huge dent on what could have been a more satisfying sex life. I in no way want to sound like a victim either, I have a blessed life, but this has been kind of a downer. I have gotten good at pleasing in other ways, but still kind of sucks I can’t mix it up and give a complete, awesome package including good, solid penetrative sex to a woman. Any information would be greatly appreciated, thanks!