Why is everyone’s dating profile so boring?
Hello everyone, been on dating apps for 5 months now and I can’t help but to notice everyone’s profile has minimal effort put into it. For context I’m a 22 year old male and I’m looking for a woman in the age range of 20-25. I noticed that most of the women in this age range that I’ve seen on dating apps barely put any effort in their prompts. I lot of the time it says something like on Sundays I like to nap or a green flag is that you’re funny or enjoy eating food in my free time. These are all boring answers that everyone is looking for, it doesn’t show who the person really is. The problem is that the majority of women’s pictures that I come across is like this.
It’s difficult for me to find a match on dating apps because I usually don’t like these prompts because I like hearing something unique about the person. When I do occasionally find someone with good prompts, they often have qualities I’m not looking for such as smoking, doing drugs, or don’t really find them attractive (I’m sorry but truthfully I won’t force myself to go out with someone if I don’t find them physically attractive). Also I’m a fairly short guy (only 5’7) so I often skip women that are taller than me because I assume that they won’t like me back simply because a lot of women don’t like that, which is fine they’re aloud to have preferences. Then when I actually do end up getting a match, the chances of actually getting them to go out with me is difficult because I’m guessing I’m also competing with other guys. Has anyone else noticed this and what should I be doing?