Why is she being so weird??

I moved out a few weeks ago and because packing up my car was chaotic I ended up forgetting my ss and birth certificate. I asked her a week and a half ago if she could send it because i needed it to start working over here. She had gallbladder surgery recently and is recovering, she sad shell send it when she gets out of the hospital. Shes been home almost a week now and still hasnt sent it. I havent pressed her about it since i know shes in recovery and even resorted to asking a friend of mine and my dad and grandma instead of her.

I asked my dad to go tomorrow and expedite it because I have orientation for a new job coming up and I need it by then but he won’t be home from work in time so he asked my grandma. This was my mom response to him asking my grandma.

Even miles away she is finding someway to control things and then turn it around on me to make me feel like im at “fault” instead of just giving me a logical explanation as to why ny grandma cant go out while my mom stays at home for her inspection. I feel like shes making it a bigger issue than it needs to be and cant give me an explanation as to why she is making me wait even longer knowing how important it is for me to have and make money here.

Am I wrong here or ??? Just so frustrating.