How to make the Pakistani people follow rules?

In the western countries, everyone follows rules even when there is nobody around to enforce them. Like staying in lines, stopping for pedestrians on zebra crossings, keeping your lane even when walking on foot (like always keep to the left when walking) etc. What can we do individually to make our people do the same? For example, in western countries in a car doesn’t stop for pedestrians, they spill their coffee/drink on the car to show them that they need to stop next time, and the driver has no option than to be apologetic. Is there any hope?