Were the signs always there?

Most of us knew something was wrong with our parents when we were younger, but we weren’t old enough to understand what narcissism was. So that being said, was there a time when you were younger where you really noticed that something was wrong with your parent? I’ll go first, I knew my mom was fucked up when she took me to see Tangled and when we were leaving the theater, I was saying I was happy that Mother Gothel couldn’t hurt Rapunzel anymore. I also brought up the fact that Rapunzel is better than me because I would’ve tried to escape a long time ago. She quickly corrected me and said that tangled is just a movie and mother Gothel was right to “protect” Rapunzel. She also said that the mother knows best song was important for me to know, because no matter what a mom will always know what’s best for her child. She said a lot, I can’t remember everything else verbatim but those were her two main talking points, she was basically defending mother Gothel the entire ride back home. Lol yeah TAPPED. Anyways, anyone else?