INTJs, would a partner with an active nightlife be a deal breaker?
Would you consider a partner with an active nightlife a major dealbreaker, even if they have an educated background?
I’m curious to hear your thoughts—would you immediately dismiss a potential partner, or would it depend on the context (occasional vs. habitual nightlife)? I personally can tolerate it if it's occasional, unless they flex it heavily on their IG.
I’m wondering if I might be the asshole (AITA) for feeling hesitant about this. What would you do in this situation?