IBS vs Social Events

Hi! Hope everybody's doing great.

Well, in my opinion, one of the worst parts of dealing with IBS is the social events, like birthday parties and seasonal celebrations, such as easter and christmas...

Just a brief context, i'm from Brazil and here, we have a tradicional celebration on June and it has a lot of typical food. Also, on June we celebrate our Valentine's day. Because of that, i'm feeling worried and sad about myself. I can't enjoy these celebrations as much as i wish and, about our Valentine's Day, i hate when i have to "force" my boyfriend to eat in places i can, even though I know he'd choose another one (he already told me that he doesn't care, he doesn't feel obligated and that he prioritizes my health in our moments together, but even so, the feeling of guilt consumes me and I can't avoid it...)

I believe that if it didn't happen, my life would be 100% better even with IBS.

How do you guys deal with it? I'd love to know more experiences and feelings