FTM Gay Man in Japan [cross post with r/ftm]
Hey all,
I am a 33 FTM, on T for 2-yr, post op top (DI), and not getting any bottom surgey in the near future. I am passing and I look like a bear. I am a bottom mostly when traveling, might pack a couple strapons if I have room in my luggage.
I am traveling to Japan (Tokyo/Kyoto/Sapporo) in the winter. I plan on hitting up some gay bars and am curious about going to a gay bathhouse (24 Kaikan). I know there are FTM bars in Japan and I do want to visit those as well. But I guess what I am asking is, what is the reception of transmen in gay masc spaces? Would I get kicked out of a gay bathouse? Do I have any game in a gay bar? Should I bother to use apps like Grindr?