condoms/lube for anal that are silicone safe?

exactly what it says on the tin! what water based lubes are you using with your dick????? I really would like to start topping cis men but I want to make sure I have all the right stuff to do it. I’m really worried about accidentally using any condoms that have silicone based lube and fucking up my (very expensive) new dual density strap (7in slyder rodeoh brand!), but I also am worried about water based lubes not being great for anal/not being slippery enough. any suggestions are welcome, ESPECIALLY for latex free condoms that would work! (I don’t have an allergy I don’t think, but a family history of latex sensitivity so I try to stay away from it when I can lol)