Not cumming during sex

Hey all, this has been bothering me since my boyfriend and I started having sex. I bottom and I use my front hole. We typically do PIV sex. While it feels good I can't accept the fact that he gets to cum and I can't. Toys haven't helped and him stroking my dick hasn't helped either. I tried grinding on him and that did nothing. He's not great at oral and shys away from it. I just don't feel physically satisfied. Then I get jealous because he gets a nice release and I don't. I'm extremely frustrated. We've talked about it several times but haven't reached a solution. I feel like I'm never gonna experience an orgasm with my partner. I wish I didn't care of it so much. Also he's not open to bottoming due to past some medical issues, so I won't get to experience what topping feels like either. Also please don't say that we're sexually incompatible. We're still early in our relationship and figuring things out. We just just a wall. I just want to feel good and have a release during sex. What is that so much to ask for 😭 Any advice is appreciated.