I’m stealth and want to join a Frat

Ive always been stealth but one of my goals/dreams in life was to be in a Frat. Im slowly realizing that it might not be possible because of some hazing rituals that go on. The main hazing ritual I’m worried about is of course having to get naked because I have top surgery scars and haven’t gotten bottom surgery yet. I’m wondering if anyone in this community has been in a frat? And if so how’d you get around this? I want to be in a big/popular frat but idk if it’ll be possible because of my circumstances. The 3 main colleges I have on my list are Texas A&M, Texas State, and UT. If anyone has any advice or suggestions I’d appreciate them.

(Sorry if this question is not meant for this community, please let me know what community I should ask this on if so.)