A question to ex muslim girls.
Do you wear whatever you want now? if so, how did you find the courage to dress how you want? How did your family react?
One of the things I found unfair in islam was us having very limited way of dressing.
I've always wanted to wear those cute dresses and shit but idk. If I ever get the chance to wear them, I don't think I'd have the courage to actually go out like that.
Not only don't I have the courage to go out like that but I'm also scared of what my family and friends would have to say about it.
If a man was to wear shorts above the knee, I'm pretty sure he won't get that big of a backlash as I would get for showing just my hair.
I felt as though my thoughts for wanting to wear short dresses were blasphemous and that shaytan was putting it in my head- at least that's what my mom said.
But it's not like I can change something that I like by force. And it always ends up with me being guilty when I didn't even do anything about it.