Please offer your guidance

My previous post was about finding out my partner dresses.

We talked and mutually agreed that if the urge came back he would dress with me and/or let me know he was feeling the need to dress again.

He is dressing again and keeping it from me. When confronted he admitted it and says he doesn’t know why he didn’t tell me.

Is this what I’m in for in the long run? Why doesn’t he care enough about our relationship to be honest with me? He says he’s loves me and us.

Looking for opinions from partners and people that cross dress. I’m so lost.

Thank you.