Update on BF crossdressing

Hi all, I wanted to say thank you so much for all your replies and advice. It really helped me process some things and to put everything into context.

I wanted to give everyone an update on where things stand between me and my boyfriend.

So as of now we’ve decided to take a break from our relationship. I think that there are a lot of things we both need to work on and process individually before we can be in a place where we can both support each other’s needs. It doesn’t stop us from being supportive of each other but we need some distance to process this.

I am standing firm on us not having contact for a month and then if we both decide we want to start talking again then we can. I think we need that time apart to really evaluate how we feel about each other. If we see or talk to each other then it will be easy to fall back into the same patterns. And I feel like if we get back together then we’re getting together knowing that cross dressing is a part of our relationship

While we’re on our break I’m going to be doing a lot of reading and trying to understand cross dressing more. It feels like it’s a very self centered kink for my boyfriend and I want to know if there’s a place for me in it or if it’s really just about him and his sexual gratification while he’s doing it. So if there’s any resources that you would recommend I would love to hear them.

Thanks all for listening, sorry if I’m boring you with my update. I just needed to get it out so I could process it a little bit more.