Misogynistic behavior against trans women in the dating world
An adult woman doesn't need to disclose to a man that she's a consenting adult when it's obvious. Therefore, trans women like me do not need to disclose that I'm trans because it's not an issue. I'm still a woman.
Telling trans women to live authentically but then to tell us to treat our gender as if it's harmful is misogynistic. I'm a woman and you will except that and treat me with the respect that I deserve. As a trans woman, I deserve to be seen, heard and protected.