Done Waiting

So I have been checked out mentally from my 11 year relationship with my (30 f) bf (36 m). He’s picked up on my distance and had been asking for intimacy for 3 days in a row. When I politely declined for the 3rd time he threw the TV remote on the floor and it shattered into pieces. He insisted that I had been intimate with another guy the reason I have been rejecting him. I told him “I’m not even on birth control right now and you don’t like condoms” to which he replied “then LETS MAKE A BABY.” I’m like “how with no ring?” as I held up my ring finger in his face. He says “then when we have a baby we could then finally get married!!” Mind you this man told me a couple months ago “let’s get married this November.” So now a baby is the prerequisite to marriage? We haven’t talked to each other the last few days and our lease ends at the very end of this year. Why do you think he is over reacting like this?