Drama in r/ArianaGrandeSnark after moderators ban discussion of Ariana’s “alleged” eating disorder

r/ArianaGrandeSnark is a subreddit dedicated to criticizing or “snarking” on the singer/actress. Recent photos and videos of Ariana looking alarmingly thin have sparked much discussion about the singers’ health concerns, toxic beauty standards and normalization of eating disorders in Hollywood.

Last night, the moderators made an announcement that they would no longer allow commentary on Ariana’s alleged’ eating disorder; adding this to the banned topics list, including speculation of drug use, pregnancy and abuse (namely by Dan Schneider, who Ariana worked with on “Victorious” as a teenager. Multiple actors and creative staff have claimed Schneider was abusive and fostered a toxic work environment in the “Quiet on Set” documentary). Users of the subreddit were not happy citing censorship of -in their opinion- an important discussion.

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hey everyone, we just wanted to let you all know that moving forward, we will not be allowing any discussion or speculation about ariana’s alleged eating disorder or mental health conditions. this includes any comments or posts related to her body, mental and physical health, or eating habits. here's why: 1. respect for health privacy: while she is a public figure, ariana deserves the same level of privacy and respect regarding her health as anyone else. talking about her personal health in this way is invasive and unnecessary. 2. toxicity: discussions like these often turn toxic, leading to excessive negativity and hate that doesn’t belong here. 3. unverified info: there's no solid or credible confirmation regarding these claims. spreading rumors or assumptions doesn’t help anyone, especially our users who struggle with eating disorder and mental illness themselves. at the end of the day, we are not her doctors. we’d like to reiterate that we absolutely understand the genuine and good-faith concerns for ariana’s health. we hear you completely. we want to keep the focus on snarking about her behavior and actions, not her body. there's plenty to discuss when it comes to her public persona without crossing into harmful territory. the mod team has seen and removed a large amount of outright horrible comments and while the comments are not directed us, they are starting to wear some of us down.

with that, we would also like our users to avoid speculating on and diagnosing mental illnesses. this includes posts such as “i have BPD/NPD/etc and see myself in ariana”. we kindly ask that you avoid bringing these up in any form. exceptions may be made in the instance of publications or large-scale media articles (for example, the recent new york post front page) addressing ariana’s weight loss. outside of those highlighted posts, comments and posts about these topics will be removed. continued violations or intentionally trying to cheat around the filters put in place may result in a ban.

while this may not be the most popular decision within our members, please know the mod team has spent months deliberating on how to handle this topic without crossing into the territory of censorship; we completely acknowledge many of you are here as a result of heavy censorship on fan subs. ultimately, we decided that this would be the best decision for our community and users as a whole. we truly thank you all for your understanding❤️ if you have any questions, feel free to reach out to the mod team. — the mod team

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The responses to this announcement were overwhelmingly negative.

I’m so fucking confused?! We’re not going to be like the delusional (ariana fans), she is clearly suffering at a dangerous level of an ED and is severely mentally ill. Anybody who is not delusional can see this and I think we should keep paying attention.

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I understand that we should respect their health privacy, but Ariana herself opened this up for public discussion when she made that video saying this is "the healthiest she's ever been" when she obviously looks unwell. She has a lot of impressionable young fans who look up to her, and some of them literally don't see a difference between her appearance now compared to a few years ago. They need to know that this physique is not normal, not healthy, and not something to aspire to be. In this age of Ozempic, with Hollywood celebrities and social media influencers losing weight and normalizing being underweight, we should have a space to call them out and be a voice of reason Also, for Ariana, we can't always separate snarking on her behavior vs commenting on her body because she has a well documented obsession with being small and childlike

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sigh. this is why celebrities and influencers like ariana are able to continue influencing young, impressionable women into EDs themselves because we’re not allowed to talk about it. if nobody talks about how dangerous it is, then people are more likely to think it’s normal and worth achieving. disappointing decision.

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oh shoot man idk how that’s gonna play out, especially since ari blatantly loves to parade her insert forbidden topic and it’s gettin insert adjective


The moderators responded to a few comments

I respect your decision mods, but where will the line be drawn when it comes to her behavior regarding her own appearance/weight/etc.? Behavior and context including body checking, posturing, high level of visibility and platform

MOD: great question! when it comes to her behavior, we really want to focus on her words and her intentional actions. for example: if “i’m the healthiest i’ve ever been” was posted today, that would absolutely be allowed and open for discussion vs a recent video was posted of her having hand tremors during an interview and the user attributed the tremors to her eating disorder; that was removed. it’ll be case by case, but ultimately most posts will be removed unless there is an instance of crystal-clear, undeniably intentional bodychecking/posturing (such as the bodychecks on her old tumblr).

How do mods determine what is intentional behavior as observers with no first hand knowledge of her intent? Only she (Ariana) can truly know if the actions are intentional . This is just a blanket ban.

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NEXT QUESTION: What exactly is allowed in this sub at this point? Every other month new things get banned. Weʼre allowed to discuss her bad behavior but then topics that criticize said behavior are getting banned. 

MOD: the only banned topics are speculating on drug use, pregnancy and mental illness.

“only”


This debacle prompted a user to create their own “second sub”, r/snarkingonariana which amassed nearly 500 members overnight. Users of the main sub also began questioning if the mod team had be “infiltrated” by fans, paid off by Ariana’s team or sent a cease and desist; this was refuted by a moderator’s new-deleted account.

a (ariana fan) sneaked onto the mods team

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Im starting to think the moderators are more of Ari fans than Ari snarkers

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Does anyone else feel that Ariana’s PR team is weaseling their way into this sub and gaining control of the mods? This is crazy. Her team has been deleting posts left and right. It’s obvious she is getting her way on controlling the narrative. 🙄

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not the mods being on ariana’s payroll now 😭 FREE THEM

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PR GOT THE SNARK NOOOO (rip)

MOD: I’m sorry but no, this is not what happened. You’re free to comb through my post history to confirm, but I’ve been here since the sub was under 1,000 members and have never once been a stan. This topic in particular has made modding a nightmare. People have a really hard time keeping it normal when it comes to discussions of her body, and we’ve given MULTIPLE warnings about not taking it too far that continue to be ignored (again, you can look through my post history). Is it everyone? Not at all. And I’m sorry to those of you who towed the line with respect. But a decently sized and aggressive group continues to make jokes about her ED, spread ED fuel/closeup shots of her body, and hijack regular posts to make the topic about her eating habits. It’s exhausting. If you feel compelled to make a separate sub to discuss those issues, please feel free. But it won’t be here.


A few hours later, a new post was made by the mod team, announcing new leadership. In further comments, the moderator clarifies that 2 of the previous top mods have stepped down and turned over ownership to a new mod team.

hello all! we want to let you know that r/ArianaGrandeSnark is undergoing a leadership change given the recent backlash. a new team of moderators is stepping in, and a major overhaul is imminent. our goal is to improve the community experience for everyone, and we can't do this without your feedback. the comment section of this thread and our modmail is open to your ideas and criticisms. we hope for everyone to have their voice heard in the upcoming changes we plan to make. stay tuned for more updates 💖


This was also met with backlash and many questions

honestly just curious how you assembled this new team of mods all of a sudden…? doesn’t make sense to me but maybe i missed something

MOD: two moderators have already quit today, with more potentially leaving in the future. rest assured that the new mod team has already been properly vetted

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what was the vetting process like? who are the new mods?

Yes, please at least introduce yourselves and your vetting process to us. How many mods are there? What is your goal for this sub going forward? How do you vet new moderators? How do you plan to handle the ban on posting about Ariana’s ED and mental illness?

MOD: Two new mods with extensive history moderating subreddits of this nature have joined the team. At least two more will be added once the founding members leave 1. We truly want to improve the community experience for everyone. It is still too early for us to give a more concrete answer, so please be patient as we get our bearings. 2. The previous top moderator announced at the last minute that they were quitting due to personal reasons, and also presumably because of the backlash. Another moderator quit soon afterwards citing similar reasons. Every new mod that was added afterwards was vetted by the top mod before leaving. This included a thorough review of our past moderation history. 3. This is still a work in progress, however our ultimate goal is not to overly censor users over sensitive topics such as ED and mental illness.

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I am not sure what this announcement entails. I hope this subreddit does not turn into the current (fan sub) - from neutral to overly protective. All the best, new team... (who are you, though)

MOD: we're simply in the process of brainstorming some changes, and would like users input on things they want to see improved!

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How can I (and others) input our thoughts on this subreddit? Can the old and active members become a part of the new team? Are the founding members still here? I think it's important for us to know their direction moving forward. What are other changes should we expect other than any discussion related to weight loss and mental disorder? Thank you.

MOD: Please share your input in the comment section of this thread. The founding members of this subreddit have been inactive for months and will most likely be leaving soon. Two of the previous top mods have also decided to quit today for personal reasons. As for the direction of this subreddit, we are still figuring things out. Please be patient.

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Don’t censor so much. Obviously death threats or truly vile comments about Ariana should not be allowed, but things like talking about her ED and health are valid? Most people bringing it up do it out of concern, not because they’re cheering it on. If it’s not a truly vile comment or threat then leave it be? No point in having a snark if certain topics are prohibited to talk about. EDIT: If it’s ED related a trigger warning would be nice but you shouldn’t remove those discussions entirely.

MOD: This was super helpful. Thank you!


Definitely a polarizing topic on the sub. What are your thoughts?