one lobe is always so much more stubborn πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”

does anyone else have one lobe that is always much more stubborn to stretch than the other?? my left lobe will pretty much always stretch the first time i try to size up (and i’m taking it slow, going months between stretching, massaging them often with jojoba oil, 1mm increments at a time) but the right lobe never does. i usually have to keep the smaller size in my right lobe and try again after a while (perhaps multiple times) before it decides to join too LOL it’s so annoying sometimes