My brother is a DL guy/chaser

So, as a trans woman I feel really bothered by the fact that my brother is a chaser.

He was straight identifying growing up, then became curious about trans women, openly dated one but then got into a long term thing with a cis woman. Fast forward a few years and he thinks he is bi, but then decides he’d still rather be with his cis gf even though he thinks he’d prefer sex with guys. Fast forward a few years and now he thinks he’s gay.

He tells me he feels gay about his sexual relationship with his trans ex and that it was all about the D, and that he thinks now he’d rather just pursue men because it was too stressful for him to be seen in public with a trans woman. Even though he really would like to find one to top him.

I just… how am I supposed to feel good about my prospects of finding a decent guy when not even my own brother respects trans women and is so open with his transgender sister about how he objectifies people just like her and can’t take the heat of social stigma that people like her experience every time they leave the house.

Throwaway account cause I don’t want to take the chance my post history would identify me if he saw this post.