25M - Struggling to Meet Women for a Serious Relationship with Marriage Intent

Hi all,

I’m a 25M, and I’m genuinely confused about how to meet women for a real relationship with the intent to marry. I’ve tried a few options, but they haven’t worked out for me.

Bumble/Tinder: I’ve spent time on these apps, but honestly, it feels like a waste of time. Most matches don’t lead to meaningful conversations or connections. It’s all so casual, and I’m looking for something serious.

Shaadi.com: Tried this too, but the experience has been weird. A lot of the women I spoke to told me, “Aap mummy se baat karo” (talk to my mom) or there parents or siblings talk to me . I understand the importance of family in arranged setups, but I was hoping to have a personal connection before involving families.

I don’t know where I’m going wrong. I want to meet someone organically, but I’m not sure how to do that. My goal is to build a strong, meaningful bond with someone before taking the next step toward marriage.

Any advice, personal experiences, or suggestions would be super helpful. How do people even meet these days if not through apps or traditional setups?