Sweet + gourmand, but subtle

I currently use Pink Sugar by Aquolina, but I've been told by others sometimes it can be too sweet or overpowering. I only ever wear sweet perfumes, I can't stand the obvious "perfume" smell of most designer ones. I prefer scents that just smell like the actual thing, rather than a perfume that smells like something. I really love the idea of gourmand/weird scents, like chocolate or affogato! My main goal is just for someone to walk past me and think "She smells like dessert in bed while it's raining." I love desserts and sweet things, so I really like for it to extend to my scent too. My partner is very sensitive to strong chemical scents, so I'd prefer something subtle please!