Some days good, some days terrible

Does anybody have good days where you feel the urge, but it’s not strong so you’re able to fight off the urge, even for a couple hours and you think, maybe it’s getting better! And then the next day it’s terrible and you have to go to the bathroom 24/7? Because I absolutely hate when this happens and I tell my urologist and she says to make sure it’s not a UTI and it never is. I just feel so done with this. I get hope, and then nothing. It’s really changing my life, and not for the better. :(