Question about bushings?

Is there some sort of guide to bushings vs body weight. I’ve been riding my board for a few weeks now and I think I might like a tighter feel and just based on this sub I’m probably a little bigger than the average skater (6’1” 210lbs) I’m thinking the bushings that came on my complete are softer than ideal? I know a lot of it is personal preference but I did also want to hear how you all figured out the right “fit”.