I’m so confused?

I’ve literally been super good on picking the “good” options that increase the serenity happiness meter, in fact I replayed to get all the good options, and I don’t think I missed any, that I’m aware of. Yet I still got the “I should’ve gotten to know people better” in assuming that’s based on the serenity happiness meter. Is this just me? A glitch again? Or to get a better option, you have to have the meter super high.