breaking hymen?

today was the first time i like tried having vag sex (i’ve only done anal) and when he was putting it in it HURTTTT so bad i couldn’t even let him continue it could’ve been that it was too big cuz it was girthy asf but i had to tell him to stop before he could start thrusting. i did research on how to make it less painful and it said breaking my hymen? do any of you know how to do that or how to make sex less painful..?