Ophthalmologist who listens

After years of just getting the same Rx on new frames, last year I went to an ophthalmologist for the first time since moving to the area. I felt rushed the whole time and was disappointed; I do not want to return there. My options are limited because I can’t see an optometrist due to preexisting conditions - but now I have a new issue I want to discuss asap (literally my eyes in so much pain and crying in the cold I can’t walk outside with my eyes open? Kind of a problem!)

Do any of you BWT know a good ophthalmologist who takes MetLife? Ideally in NE or NW DC or Montgomery Co MD but happy to take a long metro ride for a really good doctor!