What is the Catholic way of dealing with Pro Abortion friends after you have converted and changed your opinion?
I have a dear American friend who is very progressive and very publicly pro-abortion. We’ve been friends for a long time, back before I converted to Catholicism and had a kid, which has significantly changed my opinion on abortion to be very pro-life.
My friend constantly brings up abortion when we talk and very much suffers from Trump Derangement Syndrome. They have recently decided to start trying for a baby and she called me straight away as I am probably the only pro-kid person she knows. She kept bringing up how she’s so scared she will Have to get a back alley abortion if her baby happens to have spinal bifida. It makes me cringe everytime she brings it up cause she’s just so cavalier about murdering her baby but I’ve never outright chastised her for it or told her I’m pro life, but I will point out that she’s being hyperbolic, and that Trump hasn’t removed abortion, but just made it a state’s rights. How do I handle this? She knows I’ve converted to Catholicism but maybe just assumes I’m a cafeteria Catholic? Should I come out and say “hey can you not talk about abortion in front of me because I find it offensive”. Should I keep quiet? What do it do?