How much do you trust your CM?

Like the title says. How do you know what they tell you is true? We've been asking for a specific location for a while and they keep saying 2025 we'll have it for you. We are a mil couple. We're set to come back to Canada from OUTCAN this coming aps and somehow they don't have space for us where we want to go. How do I know they aren't lying? Seems like some mbrs have been to that location for over 10 years without a posting. This is going to be our 4th posting in 9 years.