Mary vs Angie: both sling awful comments, only one is called iconic for it

I was reading a thread on one of the bravo subs about how amazing Angie is this season. I unfortunately lost the thread, so I don’t remember everything about it — but the gist was that Angie is this season’s breakout star.

I don’t disagree, I think Angie has been amazing and hilarious. But also? She’s been really mean. Whether it’s to Meredith or Britani, Angie has had some vile things come out of her mouth this season and I don’t really see anyone calling that out.

So, here’s my (genuine) question: Why do people always shit on Mary for being filterless and blunt and condescending but applaud Angie for it?