Are cervical checks supposed to be horrible?

I know some discomfort or even cramping is expected, but I literally feel like my OB bruised my cervix. She was so aggressive and it lasted so long. I was in so much pain when I got home that I had to lay down for several hours and I’m still uncomfortable 2 days later. It just felt so invasive and wrong. Is that normal? Im 37 weeks, not dilated, but my OB is pushing for an induction at 39 weeks.