Which of the 9 symptoms hits you the hardest?

  1. Fear of abandonment
  2. Unstable relationships
  3. Unstable identity
  4. Impulsive behavior
  5. Self-harm
  6. Extreme mood swings
  7. Chronic emptiness
  8. Extreme anger
  9. Paranoia and psychosis

Mine is unstable identity because of how much I absolutely HATE myself. I feel like if I didn't have that 1 symptom, things would be a lot easier. But I think no matter what happens in my life- I'm always going to assume I'm selfish, worthless and not good enough. Like, I don't see how someone could prove me wrong. It's in my DNA to hate myself.