I want to know what men think about women in their late 20s who have never kissed or had sex before.

I'm just curious because, to me, it's completely normal. But other people always seem shocked when I tell them I've never dated, kissed or had sex before.

***I'm not religious, and I don't think my personality is a problem either. I've got lots of friends both men and women, including LGBTQ+ people. But I just feel like I can't do these things with someone I don't have feelings for. I have sexual desires (which I think are quite high). Some guys approach me, but I've never felt the same way, so I always directly reject them.

My big problem is, I've never fallen in love because I just feel happy with my life right now, enjoying being single. If a relationship were to decrease my happiness, I’d rather not have one. (Though I’d like to try, but again, I’ve never fallen in love with anyone.) So, I’m surprised when I tell people I’ve never had a boyfriend, and they think it’s strange. Because when I see someone who’s never been in any relationship before, I don’t find it strange at all.***

Please comment with respect for others and don't devalue anyone, whether they are female or male.