Can it be a turn off?

I generally curious if maybe it's my fault.

Can it be a turn off for a woman to have a very high sex drive/ gets off on giving their significant other pleasure frequently ?

Is it better to have him work for it ? Idk help!

Thanks you guys ❤️ I'm just not sure what I'm suppose to do at this point, I have a very high sex drive and even get off to giving him head with out anything in return willing to try what ever he wants,

I've never had this issue before, I don't think I'm that unattractive pretty decent natural boob Size I have a ass not a huge one but enough that jiggles lol I've been told my whole life I've got a pretty face and always have guys hitting on me.

But me and my spouse have had sex maybe once every two weeks, I've initiated and been turned down I've bought all sorts of outfits toys you name it I've done it. I take care of our 2 children, kept a cleaned and organized house, make him breakfast lunch and dinner, and try to make sure he wants for nothing. Play videos games with him almost always and dress sexy while playing so he has something to look at

He told me he has low libido and testosterone I respected that didn't pressure I felt bad and tried everything to make him feel better and I guess more manly. but I just found out he's using porn every day instead of having sex with me. . I'm just not sure what else can I do