why are gurgaon guys so weird?

I'll try to keep it short and simple. Not trying to be rude/mean or anything just what i've experienced most of the time. So I'm in my early twenties (female ) have many classmates from school/college from gurgaon. School ka i can understand because i live close to gurgaon but college ka ? College was DUUUURRR. But still for some freaking reason there were lot of guys from gurgaon and they tried talking to me, a lot of them. I mean, mujhe koi problem nahi hai vaise ofc but i was very clear that i'd avoid guys from gurgaon because as i said in school too, most of them were from gurgaon and they were.. weird? they were over possessive, even as friends. and it was just toxic. very toxic. But i never realised? And they were ja@t (i was not able to write the exact word idk why??) Now i want to make it clear i've grown up around them. Even in my hometown himachal, our house is in ja@t dominated area. And they are genuinely so good. so respectable and such nice people. And i think this is why i mostly ignored the negative traits of guys from gurgaon . I'm genuinely not trying to be mean. pls don't think this as a hate post. I need some clarity on why it happened so many times?

In school, when a Gurgaon guy confessed his feelings and I didn’t reciprocate, he’d act like a psycho. For instance, a 12th-grader told me he liked me (I was in 10th). I told him I wasn’t interested because of my strict dad. He didn’t take it well—he stalked me, loitered outside my house, and called me from different numbers. His friends even called me “bhabhi” in front of teachers. Stuff like this happened way too much.

In college, it was the same. A Gurgaon guy (ja@t) confessed he liked me. I politely said no, explaining I wasn’t looking for relationships due to personal reasons. He got angry and accused me of not caring about his feelings. I tried to calm things down, but he started stalking me with his friends—waiting at the metro, outside classrooms, and even near washrooms. I did not tell my parensts because fir college jaane se mana kar dete.

Now, a guy from school (Gurgaon, ja@t) confessed last year. I politely declined, and he seemed to understand at first. But soon, he began stalking me too—loitering outside my house and calling me from different numbers, asking to meet.

I’m genuinely upset because this keeps happening. I maintain clear boundaries, and I’m polite when I say no because being rude might trigger their ego and cause more trouble. Yet, they don’t take no for an answer.

This isn’t a hate post—I’ve had amazing ja@t friends and family friends from Sonipat and Himachal who are nothing like this. But my experience with guys from Gurgaon has been mostly bad, and I’m struggling to understand why.

i can't even tell my dad, because he';s stressed most of the time. i had one chachu but he died 2 years ago.

this shit is making me so stressed and angry