Don't take advice from UNMARRIED folks in this sub.
This sub about AM should be about helping people who is trying to get married through AM.
I request people to be REAL.
You can't set unrealistic expectations saying :
"Wait till 35 to get married "
"Oh health issue is nothing, everyone have it.."
"You should search outside caste in AM"
What if the outcome is :
" Hey I'm 35, why no one is ready to marry me"
" They said health issue is fine, but I'm suffering after marriage "
" No one willing to marry me outside caste, let me stay single "
Have a little More sense about the impact you can create in people life. And try TO BE REAL.