Meta: If you're trying to resolve relationship issues over text, your relationship is going to fail.
This is one of the most prominent post types on this sub. And most of these relationships have devolved by the time they land here. But I have a feeling that in-person communication leading up to this point has been limited 90% of the time.
You miss out on visual cues, intonation and facial expressions when utilizing text. You may think it is more comfortable to avoid conflict via text, but it is far more detrimental.