Pro-Lifers: Do You Recognize What You're Doing?

I have debated this for years, and it happens very often that a pro-lifer will say "we're not *forcing* her to do anything, she chose to have sex, we didn't force her to do that." So my question is, do you as pro-lifers recognize that you are trying to force women and girls to carry a pregnancy and give birth against their will? Not forcing them to conceive (unless that *is* what you did), but you are in fact forcing them to carry a pregnancy and give birth against their will.