AITAH for wanting the lights off during sex

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now. I like to take things really slow so it’s only kind of recently that he and I have been more sexual together. I have past sexual trauma and I’ve always been uncomfortable with my body. I’ve also been gaining weight due to anti depressant and I really want to loose those extra pounds I’ve been trying to eat better and go to the gym etc.. My boyfriend likes to do things with the light on while I, feeling shy and uncomfortable prefers the light off. I told him that eventually as time goes by I will be okay with having the lights on but that currently I’m just uncomfortable with it and prefer them off. Today we were making out and everything and eventually he took off my shirt and so I switched off the light and he said no. And I said I’m shy and he ignored me and lay down on the bed and started pouting and sulking and not talking to me. I tried to be all sweet and everything and said I’m just shy but he just kept sulking. Some minute went by and reluctantly I switched on the lights and my boyfriend’s face lit up and he smiled and started holding me again and kissing me and etc… I’m annoyed but I don’t know if I have the right to be annoyed but I also don’t think it was right of him to guilt me, I don’t know I feel confused. I’m wondering if I’m also wrong here because If turning off the lights meets my preference, isn’t it wrong of me to ignore his preference for leaving them on? I would love anyone’s thoughts and opinions, am I the asshole?

Edit: I should have specified that it’s not pitch black, he has a ps5 and a large tv to go with it and it is very close by and facing his bed and something is always on, games tv shows etc. i am completely okay with the glare from the tv, it provides just the right amount of light that isn’t too much and I feel comfortable with that more then the big bright yellow light of the room.

Also thank you guys for the comments, it’s honestly been helpful! I appreciate all the advices/support :)<3