AITD for telling my cousin teen pregnancy wasn’t that bad?

Identifier: Cousinadviser

Hey Shaaba, Jamie, and fellow peaches! I (18F) am a teen mom of an adorable little girl (4). I got pregnant at 13, which is not how I thought my life would’ve been going at all. It was a very difficult pregnancy and there were some complications but overall things were fine. Of course, with a pregnancy that young there are a ton of judgmental people, worst of all were my family members. My parents were pretty supportive after the initial shock of things, but I wasn’t so lucky with other family members. My grandma and aunt were constantly talking behind my back, my sister was so rude to me, and my extended family basically cut me off. This basically put a massive chip on my shoulder and empowered me to do everything the same, just with a kid.

   Recently I got accepted into a few prestigious universities with early action (typically more competitive) which I am very proud of myself for accomplishing. So to celebrate, over my birthday weekend my parents drove me South Carolina for a party with my friends and family. My daughter stayed with her father during this trip. While we were there we also saw my cousins and aunt and her husband. My favorite cousin (15 F) nd I spent some time together at her house, and at the house that my parents were renting for the trip. We were chatting, and naturally the conversation flows to my daughter and life as a teen mom. She asks me a couple questions and it’s just a laid back conversation. Eventually she asks me if being a teen mom is that difficult. I didn’t want to lie or over exaggerate. I’m only speaking from my own  experiences, and it has NOT been that bad for me. I told her that it’s not easy but I can make it work. My parents are pretty helpful as well as her father, so it’s not overwhelming. 

Anyway, I dropped her back at her house from our rental place. I thought that everything was fine and honestly I wasn’t even thinking about the convo. We go back home and around a week or two later, my aunt is calling me yelling at me and cussing me out. I literally had no idea what she was on about at first. Apparently, my cousin is now pregnant and I’m being blamed for encouraging it. I’m sorry, but I just don’t see how this is AT ALL my fault. That visit was the first time I saw her in over a year. I didn’t tell her to rush out and get preggo. However, my mom is pissed, and she says that I basically gave her the greenlight. So, AITD for “encouraging” my cousin’s pregnancy?